Posts by Christie Rinder
Twin Sleep: What’s Normal, What’s Not, and When to Get Support
Are you currently managing twin sleep? Or pregnant with twins and wondering what a healthy twin bedtime routine really looks like? Whether you’re in the thick of it or just trying to be proactive, here’s what you need to know: Twin sleep is often harder, more chaotic, and more exhausting than singleton sleep. And it’s…
Read MoreA Step-by-Step IVF Timeline: From First Consult to Pregnancy Test
The IVF process is overwhelming; there’s no way around it. So many steps, so much medical terminology, and so many unknowns. It’s a lot to take in—especially when you’re already carrying the emotional weight of infertility. We see you. Understanding the IVF timeline doesn’t make the process easier, but it can help you move through…
Read MoreThird Trimester Anxiety: Why It Happens and What Actually Helps
You’re in your third trimester. You thought you’d feel excited and calm as you get close to meeting your baby. Instead, you’re anxious. Really anxious. Your mind races at night. You Google things you probably shouldn’t. Every kick makes you hyperaware. Every appointment brings new worries. And you wonder: why now? Why does anxiety feel…
Read MoreThe First 6 Weeks Postpartum: A Week-by-Week Emotional & Physical Overview
Postpartum recovery can be… a lot. And most of the time, it’s different for everyone. Your body is healing from pregnancy and birth while your hormones do wild things. Emotions are high. And you’re keeping a tiny human alive — all at once. Remember: postpartum recovery isn’t linear. You may experience unpredictable moments and unique…
Read MoreAm I Pregnant? Early Pregnancy Signs to Look Out For
Early pregnancy symptoms can start as soon as a week or two after conception, though some people don’t notice anything until they’ve missed a period. And honestly, early pregnancy symptoms can be exciting, confusing, and even anxiety-inducing… Sometimes all at once. Here’s the thing: everybody is different. The early signs don’t always look the same…
Read MoreHow to Prevent & Treat Stretch Marks During Pregnancy
You’re getting dressed one morning, glance in the mirror, and—wait… were those little squiggly lines there yesterday? Pregnancy comes with its fair share of surprises, but stretch marks have a special way of showing up uninvited, like glitter after a toddler craft project. Stretch marks are one of pregnancy’s most common souvenirs — and also…
Read MoreNewborn Lip Blisters: What They Mean and When to Get Feeding Support
Have you ever Googled, “What are newborn lip blisters?” Lip blisters in newborns are very common. Often, they’re just a sign of an eager little nurser learning how to latch and feed. Your baby’s lips are simply adjusting to the suction and friction that come with nursing or bottle-feeding. Sometimes, a small blister shows up…
Read MoreFrom Baby Showers to Support Parties: A Better Way to Celebrate Parenthood
There was a time when “baby shower” meant pastel cakes, a diaper tower, and a room full of loved ones oohing and aahing over tiny onesies and swaddle blankets. I still love a classic baby shower — the joy, the excitement, the way everyone comes together to celebrate new life. But lately, there’s been a…
Read MoreThe Nursing Bra Guide for Modern Moms
We’re thrilled to welcome Katie Brooker from Cake Maternity to the blog today! She’s offering practical advice and expert guidance on what to look for in a great nursing bra. Welcoming a new baby changes everything, including your bra drawer. Suddenly, the stylish, underwired bras you once wore feel like a distant memory, replaced by a new set…
Read MoreSex and Pregnancy: What’s Normal — and How to Stay Connected
Your libido during pregnancy isn’t something you need to “fix,” “force,” or put on your to-do list between choosing baby registry items. It’s not a reflection of your relationship or your commitment to your partner. It’s your body responding to an extraordinary transformation — pregnancy. Pregnancy is a rollercoaster — and your libido might be…
Read MoreCholestasis in Pregnancy: What Your Severe Itching Could Actually Mean
Been feeling extra itchy lately? While some itchiness during pregnancy is normal, severe itching may be a cause for concern. So, if you’re experiencing severe itching, it could be a symptom of intrahepatic cholestasis of pregnancy (ICP), which is a temporary liver condition during pregnancy that can cause intense itching. This condition is more than…
Read MoreWhat is Fetal Monitoring? What You Need to Know
“Why is fetal monitoring important?” “Is it safe for my baby?” Are these questions running through your head? If so, you’re not alone. Fetal monitoring is one of those medical terms that is frequently used, but many expecting parents don’t fully understand what it entails or their options. Understanding fetal monitoring can actually help you…
Read MoreMaking Peace with Pregnancy Weight Gain
Your body is changing faster than your closet can keep up. The scale might feel like your enemy—but it doesn’t have to. If you’re feeling anxious about the numbers creeping up, you’re not alone. Weight gain during pregnancy is normal, but that doesn’t make the emotional side any easier to navigate. Perhaps you’re concerned that…
Read MoreWhat is Amniocentesis?: Understanding This Diagnostic Test
You’re sitting in your doctor’s office, and they just mentioned something called an amniocentesis. Your curiosity piques, and your heart may skip a beat. Maybe your recent screening showed higher-than-expected numbers. Maybe you’re over 35. Or perhaps there’s a family history that has everyone on edge. Whatever the reason, you’re probably feeling a swirl of…
Read MoreMy Twin Birth Story: Trusting My Body, My Prep, and My Plan
One of our clients, Celie Degasse, was gracious enough to share her twin birth story publicly on her Instagram page. She has given us permission to publish it below. We are so grateful to this family for choosing Buddha Belly Doulas to support them through this very special birth experience! Pregnancy is transformative in every…
Read MoreAnatomy Scan Ultrasound – What to Expect
Your 20-week ultrasound is coming up! For many expectant parents, this appointment stirs up a lot of feelings. Excitement. Curiosity. Maybe some nervousness too. Understanding what this anatomy scan involves can help you feel more prepared. So let’s walk through it together. What is an Anatomy Scan? The anatomy scan ultrasound goes by a few…
Read MoreMaternal Bonding In Pregnancy – And Why It Counts
You might be wondering… when can a fetus start to hear? And here’s your answer: the inner ear begins forming around 16 weeks… At this stage, your baby begins tuning into the symphony of your body: Your blood rushing, the steady beat of your heart, the rhythm of your digestion. By 23 weeks, babies can…
Read MoreHydration During Pregnancy: The Path to a Healthy Pregnancy
Between the belly and the blazing Florida sun, staying hydrated during pregnancy can feel like a full-time job. Here in Florida, our hot and humid climate makes hydration even more crucial when you’re expecting. Your body is working overtime to nourish your growing baby, so staying hydrated isn’t just a suggestion—it’s essential for both your health and…
Read MoreBringing Baby Home from the NICU: What Every Parent Needs to Know
Bringing your baby home from the NICU is a moment you’ve probably dreamed about—but if your baby was born prematurely or needed medical support, it’s also a moment that comes with a swirl of emotions: joy, fear, overwhelm, and even grief. You are not alone in this. In fact, 1 in 10 babies worldwide is…
Read MoreUnderstanding Diastasis Recti: Causes, Symptoms, and Treatment Options
If you’ve had a baby recently… You might be looking at your reflection, thinking: “I don’t look like I used to.” You’ve probably noticed quite a few changes. And when you think about it, it’s a bit overwhelming. But what if, instead of getting caught up in those thoughts, you focused on something else entirely—being…
Read MoreYour Comprehensive List of Tools for Pain Management During Labor
You might be wondering about pain management during labor and … What does birth actually feel like? That’s a tough one—because the birthing experience is incredibly unique. For some, it feels like intense pressure or cramping. For others, it’s more of a wave-like rhythm of sensations. The truth? There’s no single way to describe it,…
Read More3 Steps to Safeguard Your Postpartum Boundaries
You’ve heard the stories, right? People who are unwelcome in the delivery room somehow find themselves there. Even though you asked. Even though you just wanted your partner and the baby there for those first precious moments. But no. Your mother-in-law, your grandmother, your sister… Whoever it is decided they were going to join in…
Read MoreYour 4th Trimester Checklist: 10 Must-Haves
Congratulations, your little one is finally here (or almost)! Welcome to the 4th trimester, the crucial period after birth where you and your baby will undergo many changes. You spent many months preparing for this moment… You endured pregnancy and birth, and now postpartum is at your doorstep. Typically, the 4th trimester doesn’t politely knock on…
Read MoreNavigating PCOS and Pregnancy With Confidence: A Doula’s Guide
PCOS (Polycystic Ovary Syndrome) is a common condition that affects more women than you might realize. If you’re one of them, you’re likely familiar with the daily challenges it brings. When it comes to pregnancy, navigating PCOS is no small feat. It’s not your average pregnancy journey and comes with a unique set of obstacles. Let’s…
Read MoreHow Sex Can Help Induce Labor
Have you heard the saying “What gets the baby in there (sex) may help get the baby out?” Or maybe your doctor or midwife told you to have sex to help get labor started? You might be wondering what in the world this is all about. How does sex help get the baby out exactly? …
Read MoreAll the Baby Shower Ideas
If you’re pregnant and looking for some baby shower ideas… We’ve put together some great ones so you can have one less thing to worry about. As doulas, we know how important it is to celebrate these moments on your pregnancy journey. It might not feel like it right now, but pregnancy goes by in…
Read MoreWhat No One Ever Talks About: Hormone Imbalance After IVF
You know that infertility is… Hard. You know that single parenthood is… Hard. IVF is hard too. We get it. However you arrived at undergoing IVF treatment… It isn’t for the faint of heart… and truly for people who want nothing more than to be a parent! We see you. So, if you’re reading this……
Read MoreWhy Infants Cry and How to Soothe Them
Oh, a crying infant… There’s nothing quite as heartbreaking. Or overwhelming. But… remember… Your baby doesn’t have very many ways to communicate yet. If something is wrong… Cue the tears. While it is part of the process, we know you want to find a way to make sure your baby is comfortable and not crying. …
Read MoreDoula Tips For Diaper Rash Treatment
Is your baby in a never-ending battle with diaper rash? No parent wants to see their sweet baby in pain and irritated. You are probably looking for a quick, effective solution. Depending on how severe your baby’s diaper rash is, it may take a longer or shorter amount of time to heal. Using some of…
Read MorePast Your Due Date? 7 Things to Know
Going past your due date can bring on a mixture of emotions. You’re ready to meet your baby and you’re tired. You have to wait…… and ….wait some more. Bending down to tie your shoe is out of the question. Getting up from the couch is a sporting event. You find yourself flashing glares of…
Read MoreWhy Is My Newborn So Gassy? 10 Expert Doula Tips
You might be wondering why your baby is struggling with gas. Digesting food is a new skill for your baby’s body to learn. Being immature and new, your baby’s digestive system needs time to adjust Whether they are eating from the breast or bottle, their little tummies are still sorting out this new “eating arrangement.”…
Read MoreWhat is a Non-Stress Test (NST) in Pregnancy?
There are a variety of tests that your doctor may recommend at some point during pregnancy. After 28 weeks of gestation, one of them may be the non stress test – a pregnancy screening that measures fetal heart rate and reaction to movement. It is referred to as a non-stress test because no stress is…
Read MoreHelpful Recovery Steps For C-Section Healing Week by Week
What is a c-section? A c-section (cesarean delivery) is major abdominal surgery where your baby is delivered through an incision made in your abdomen and uterus. This happens when a vaginal delivery seems to be unsafe or risky. A few possible reasons a c-section might be needed include: You might be wondering… What happens if…
Read MoreShould I Wear My Baby? Your Ultimate Babywearing Guide
Does your baby always want to be near you? Of course they do! That’s where babywearing comes in. Babywearing is a wonderful way to connect to your baby and be hands-free… You can have the best of both worlds— you can hold your baby, and do all the things you enjoy. There are many factors…
Read MoreCoping with Morning Sickness: 3 Big Questions Answered
If you recently found out you were pregnant, you might be receiving that oh-so-wonderful first-trimester gift: Nausea. Fatigue. Toilet… Repeat. Morning sickness is not for the weak. But it sure does make you feel weak. There are so many things happening in your life-giving, miracle-producing body. And with that may come this unpleasant side-effect. What…
Read MoreWill Acupuncture Help My Pregnancy Symptoms?
Pregnancy can sometimes feel like a mix of pleasure and pain. On the one hand, your body is a literal miracle machine. You’re creating new life, and my, don’t you glow! But on the other hand… Maybe the reason you’re “glowing” is from all the lovely morning sickness sweat. Or now your back is hurting,…
Read MoreBaby Sleep: The Basics of Sleep Stages
No matter who you are… Sleep is important. We all need to sleep in order to revive our bodies and minds. So, if it’s vital for you as an adult, imagine the importance of good sleep for your growing baby. I know what you’re thinking though… Won’t my baby learn how to sleep on their…
Read MoreFeeling Emotional About Weaning? 3 Tips to Start Your Breastfeeding Weaning Plan
You’ve worked long and hard to breastfeed your baby. For some, breastfeeding comes easy, while for others, not so much. After you manage to connect all the dots, breastfeeding still takes a large portion of your day. It takes time and energy to connect and learn your baby’s rhythm. As your baby grows and no…
Read MoreWill I Make It As a Solo Parent?
Being a single parent brings parenting challenges to the next level. If you’re pregnant or just had a baby, you understand the pressure it puts on you as a single person. There’s no way around it. It’s hard. But, it’s not a bad thing. It’s important to remember that you are the best parent for…
Read MoreWhat’s Best For My Body? Your Personal Postpartum Birth Control Guide
You’ve made it! You’re finally no longer pregnant. I know at one point you convinced yourself you’d be pregnant forever. Your baby is here, and now you can breathe a sigh of relief. But, not so fast… You’ve recently survived labor and navigated a roller coaster of emotions. Now you’re in the newborn stage…neck-deep in…
Read MoreGender Disappointment: You’re Not The Only One
For some this may be a taboo or controversial topic, but let’s go there together. We are all having a human experience and it’s okay to be authentic about our feelings. As a Mom of two amazing boys, who are now 17 and 11, these young men mean more to me than anything in the…
Read MoreYour Childbirth Game Changer: Learn 3 Effective Breathing Techniques For Labor
“I’m not ready to give birth….” Is this you? Does the thought of giving birth make you anxious? Not sure what to expect? Perhaps you are still recovering from a less than ideal birthing experience? Whatever the reason may be, you might be dreading your upcoming birth. I get it, there are a lot of…
Read More5 Helpful Ideas to Create Intimate Connection With Your Partner
It’s been a while since you brought your new baby home. So many emotions… Joy and stress. Mountain tops and valleys. Moments of pure bliss followed by moments of panic and overwhelm. What a rollercoaster! You feel like your brain cannot bear to hold one more responsibility or emotion. That’s why during this time, connecting…
Read MoreYour Ultimate Childproofing Checklist: 5 Easy Tips For Childproofing Your Home
Did your sweet baby just take their first steps? Amazing, isn’t it? As they do so, the light in their eyes shines. They are awakened with a newfound skill and curiosity. You finally have a “walker,” and you’re equal parts excited and terrified. But you can’t help feeling anxious about their safety. You already know…
Read More“Do I Hate Being a Parent?” 3 Helpful Ways to Shift Your Mindset
Being a parent has its challenges. There’s no way around it. While it has beautiful moments, there are equally ugly moments. Being pushed past your limits at times, you may want to quit. Sometimes, you question yourself and ask: “Do I hate being a parent?” A simple internet search reveals many people feel burnout when…
Read More6 Common Pregnancy Ailments and Easy Remedies to Help
Pregnancy is a beautiful time in your life. You are growing a living, breathing miracle inside your body. Trust me, your body is amazing. Don’t forget to soak in this moment and reflect on how much your body is doing. I know it can be hard to focus on that. Mostly because… While your body…
Read MoreAm I Going Into Labor? Understanding Prodromal Labor
Coming to the end of your pregnancy can be such a challenging task. Not only are you done being pregnant, but the inevitable question rears its head: When will I go into labor? Most of your pregnancy goes by in the blink of an eye. But the last month of pregnancy is a different story. …
Read MoreIs “Mommy Brain” Actually Real? New Moms Need Real Answers
You woke up today with a lot of things to do. You have housework, a doctor’s appointment, and a million other things. Then this happened: You made coffee but you can’t remember where you left it. It’s in the microwave. Your husband called and you told him you lost your phone. You’re talking on it. …
Read MoreThird Trimester Checklist: What to Do in the Third Trimester of Pregnancy
Congratulations you made it to the third trimester of pregnancy! You are on the homestretch, the excitement is palpable, and your baby’s arrival is just around the corner. To help you have a smooth transition, we’ve compiled a comprehensive third trimester checklist just for you. Go here to see our First and Second Trimester Checklists. …
Read More10 Things I Learned from our 165 Days in the NICU
My dear friend Laura has had two babies born prematurely. With both she went through quite an ordeal and learned many things during their lengthy time in the NICU (neonatal intensive care unit.) She was kind enough to share some of her story with us in honor of November being Prematurity Awareness Month: An adventure…
Read MoreHunger Cues | How To Tell Your Baby is Hungry
Why is it important to know your baby’s hunger cues? Understanding your baby’s signals helps you know when and how often to feed her. Newborn babies have tiny tummies and need to eat often. An average of 8 – 12 feedings in a 24 hour period is expected and necessary. A couple of those feedings…
Read MorePregnancy After Loss
Losing a baby through miscarriage or stillbirth is one of the hardest things any parent will ever go through. When I was pregnant with my 2nd child, I went into preterm labor at 17 weeks. Having made it to the 2nd trimester we had already announced the pregnancy to friends and family. My husband and…
Read MoreRecovering from a Traumatic Birth
Childbirth is a powerful and transformative event, but sometimes the experience can be traumatic. Things don’t always go as planned and the feelings you have during and after the birth can be emotionally challenging. On a personal level my first baby’s birth was very difficult and I experienced a degree of PTSD afterwards. I worked…
Read MorePregnancy After 35 | Advanced Maternal Age
One day you’re 34 and feeling fine, but as the clock strikes midnight on your 35th birthday the switch is flipped and your fertility takes a nosedive, right? Forget gradual changes – your ovaries throw a little party and the DJ starts spinning “Last Dance.” Your eggs decide to pack their bags and head for…
Read MoreDo You Have a Postpartum Plan?
You’ve got your birth class done, your hospital bag packed and your car-seat safely installed! Have you considered what happens once you are home with your baby in your arms? Do you have a postpartum plan in place? You may have heard a lot of talk about birth plans and much less discussion about a…
Read MoreThe Benefits of Choosing a Doula Agency
If you’re on this page, you’re likely considering bringing a doula into your birth or postpartum experience. Kudos to you for prioritizing support and care during this remarkable journey. As someone deeply involved in the Tampa Bay community – a doula here since 2009, and the founder of Buddha Belly Doulas since 2014 – I’ve…
Read MoreSafe Sleep For Your Baby
We know how exciting it is to tuck your baby in for a good night’s sleep, so let’s make sure it’s not only cozy but also safe as can be. a. Safe to Sleep Recommendations for Baby: First things first, let’s talk about the golden rules of safe sleep. The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP)…
Read MoreBraxton Hicks Contractions: The Prequel to Labor
Braxton what?! If you’re on this page, chances are you’ve heard whispers about Braxton Hicks contractions and today, we’re going to demystify them for you. What are Braxton Hicks Contractions? Braxton Hicks contractions, also charmingly known as “practice contractions,” are the dress rehearsal before the real show. They’re your uterus’s way of flexing its muscles…
Read MoreNewborn Sleep – What to Expect
Ah, the magical world of newborn sleep! It’s like a roller coaster ride that you never signed up for, but guess what? You’re not alone on this wild journey. Parents and soon-to-be parents, especially those snuggling tiny bundles of joy in the wee hours of the night, this one is for you. Let’s dive into…
Read MorePostpartum Sweating & Body Odor: Smells Like Motherhood
Along with the countless joys of parenthood, there are also a few unexpected challenges that come with the territory. We’re diving right into a topic that might not get as much airtime as baby names and nursery decorations, but it’s just as real: postpartum sweating and body odor. Yep, we’re getting up close and personal…
Read MoreThe Prenatal Meeting with Your Birth Doulas
When you work with Buddha Belly Doulas for labor support you get two doulas who are on-call for you 24/7! During pregnancy your doulas are available to answer questions, provide support and help you prepare for your special day. When you go into labor, whichever doula is on-call at the time will be the one…
Read MoreDecision Making During Labor: Using Your B.R.A.I.N.
The waves of labor bring you up and down and occasionally all over the place. At times in labor, we simply have to go with the flow and surrender to mother nature’s plan. However, now and again we may need to use our B.R.A.I.N. to make decisions during labor. While childbirth can be filled with…
Read MoreThe Group B Strep Test and Its Role in Labor
One of the numerous tests and procedures to deal with during pregnancy is the Group B Streptococcus (GBS) test. This is a routine part of prenatal care and July is International GBS awareness month. So, in this blog post, we will shed light on what to expect regarding your GBS test and the results. What…
Read MoreNewborn Poop – Is THAT Normal?
As a new parent, amidst the continual diaper changes and sleepless nights you may find yourself obsessing over every little detail, including your baby’s poop. Yes, you read that right! Today, we’re diving into the world of baby poop, discussing its frequency, appearance, and even when to get medical advice. So, hold your nose and…
Read MoreWhy Take a Newborn Care Class?
Welcoming a newborn into your life is a special adventure that can bring a mix of emotions – joy, love and yes, a little uncertainty. As a parent myself, I know firsthand that no amount of preparation can fully ready you for the arrival of your little one. Parenting is a complex blend of following…
Read MoreUnderstanding the Hormones of Early Pregnancy
Pregnancy brings about incredible changes in your body, driven by a beautiful dance of hormones. Understanding the hormonal changes in early pregnancy empowers you to embrace this transformative period. In this post, we will explore these hormones, their functions, and how they can affect you along the way. Firstly, what exactly are hormones? Hormones are…
Read MoreUnderstanding Prenatal Rh Antibody Testing
During pregnancy you may encounter various prenatal tests and new or complicated terminology. Your doulas are here to help you understand this information. One such test is the Rh Antibody Screening. Let’s break it down and highlight the important points you should know. What is the Rh antibody test? This test aims to identify specific…
Read MorePostpartum Hair Loss: Beyond the Baby Glow
During each of my pregnancies my hair was so shiny, long and healthy I felt like I was living in a Pantene commercial every day. Fast forward a few months with a newborn in my arms, and those commercials had officially been axed. Along with the joys of welcoming your new baby come a host…
Read MorePostpartum Perineal Care
During pregnancy we do a lot of preparation for birth and baby. One part of the experience to add to your postpartum planning is healing your bottom. Postpartum perineal care will be a daily part of your recovery for the first couple weeks. How sore your bottom is after birth often depends on how your…
Read MoreShould I Take a Breastfeeding Class?
I talk to a lot of expecting mothers and hear many of them say they hope to be successful at breastfeeding, but they aren’t sure it will work out. These hopes are mixed in with stories they’ve heard from friends and families. At least 80% of women initiate breastfeeding. That is a high percentage who…
Read MoreWhat is Preeclampsia?
Preeclampsia is a complication that happens in about 1 in 25 pregnancies in the United States. While it’s a serious condition, it’s important to remember that with proper care and monitoring, many women with preeclampsia can still have a healthy and safe birth. So, what is preeclampsia? Preeclampsia is a condition that typically develops after…
Read MorePostpartum Bleeding: From Padzilla to Panytliners
Yes, unfortunately after giving birth you will have to endure several weeks of postpartum bleeding. The more informed you are, the better prepared you will be for your postpartum journey so here we go. What is Lochia? Lochia is the term used to describe the vaginal bleeding that occurs after childbirth. It is a natural…
Read More12 Steps to Prepare for a Successful VBAC
My first child was born via cesarean and my second child was born vaginally. Despite the odds we had a vaginal birth after a cesarean, aka VBAC! I gave birth in the comfort of my home with my husband, a licensed midwife (CPM) and my birth doula present. The journey from c-section to VBAC was full…
Read MoreCesarean Birth: What to Expect
Learning about cesarean birth, even if you are hoping to avoid it, is always a good idea. When I was taken for an emergency c-section, there was little time for anybody to explain things to me. I was grateful I had gained knowledge about cesarean birth in the birth classes I attended. As a first…
Read MoreAll About Childbirth Afterpains
Childbirth afterpains are one of those things that: “nobody tells you about!” So let me be the one to rectify that. When I first heard about childbirth afterpains, my mind went to the perhaps grim analogy of an earthquake. Forgive me. I grew up in Los Angeles, California where we did earthquake drills regularly in…
Read MoreBringing Your Baby Home – Steps to Success
As you reach the end of your pregnancy the reality that you will be bringing your baby home soon is starting to set in and is exciting! Like most new parents in the nesting phase, you are probably busy preparing and getting things ready. Here are some things to consider getting done in advance to…
Read MoreThe Golden Hour After Birth
The Golden Hour (or hours) refers to the immediate hour after you have given birth to your baby and the connection that takes place during this time. This quality time between you and your baby will have lasting effects on your relationship and how your baby adapts to their new environment. Your beautiful baby arrives…
Read MoreChoosing an OB/GYN or Midwife (Hospital, Birth Center or Homebirth)
Is an OB/GYN or a Midwife the best choice for your prenatal care? How do the different options affect where you will give birth? There are many factors to consider when choosing your prenatal care provider and your birthing location. In addition to taking into account your personal health history, it also comes down to…
Read MoreAnnouncing Your Pregnancy
You just found out you are pregnant! You may be feeling mixed emotions; a little nervous and likely very excited. While you are considering when and how to announce your pregnancy there are some things to consider before sharing the news. Some expectant parents call their closest family and friends right away. Many wait until…
Read MoreHemorrhoids During Pregnancy
There are many beautiful things that come from pregnancy. Hemorrhoids are not one of them. Hemorrhoids are swollen blood vessels in the rectal area. They can cause burning, itching, bleeding and pain. While common during pregnancy, afflicting more than half of all pregnant women, they are more prevalent in the third trimester. So, though this…
Read MoreAll About Newborn Acne
Newborn acne? Wait, I thought acne was for teenagers? To my disappointment, my son had acne with little red pimples all over his cheeks that started when he was 3 – 4 weeks old. He was as perfect to me as ever! But, I was curious what was causing my newborn to have acne and…
Read MoreSurviving the Holidays with a Newborn
The magic of the holiday season is magnified by the arrival of your baby. Of course, it is natural to want to create the perfect first Christmas for your growing family. Be that as it may, bringing a newborn home means your daily routines have undergone a major adjustment. Add in the bustle and flurry…
Read MoreWhen Should I Hire My Postpartum Doula?
It’s no secret that finding a spot at the best local daycare or preschool requires booking months in advance. Sometimes it even means putting your name on a wait list. You’ve heard about this before, right? “Infant care tends to book up fairly fast and several months in advance. In order to find one that…
Read MoreHow Doulas Support Dads and Partners
I can’t tell you how many clients I call to follow up with after they use our birth doula services who say, “My husband wasn’t convinced we needed a birth doula, but after delivery he said we could never have done that without her.” Whether you are first time parents, or adding another child to…
Read MoreHyperemesis Gravidarum (Severe Morning Sickness)
What is Hyperemesis Gravidarum? Some degree of nausea and vomiting is normal during pregnancy. In fact, about 70 – 80% of women experience this. However, extreme and persistent nausea and vomiting while pregnant is referred to as hyperemesis gravidarum (aka HG). This condition is rare and occurs in only about 2% of pregnancies. HG is…
Read MoreCar Seat Safety, Ages and Stages
We all want to keep our children safe, yet some discussions about car seats are touchy. The subject of rear facing vs. forward facing car seats can raise some serious debate. In honor of National Child Passenger Safety Month, let’s discuss car seat safety for different ages and stages. How do I choose the right…
Read MoreReturning to Work After Maternity Leave
My sweet baby boy was only a few days old, and I was already dreading the thought of going back to work. I tried to make the most of every moment we had together. I probably changed his clothes 5 times a day. Not because he needed me to, but because I feared he would…
Read MoreBlack Breastfeeding Week, An Interview with Deidra Washington, IBCLC
For Black Breastfeeding Week, we are highlighting one of our favorite lactation counselors, Deidra Washington. You can learn more about her services and find her here: https://loveontopbirth.com. 1. Tell us about your personal breastfeeding story. My breastfeeding journey started on January 2, 2018 late at night, around 10:00 pm. I gave birth at the Labor of…
Read MoreIs My Baby Cross-Eyed? When To Be Concerned
Sometimes parents notice their newborn’s eyes look a little cross-eyed in the beginning. Yes, it is normal for a newborn’s eyes to wander or cross occasionally during the first few months of life. Their muscles are strengthening and their eyes are learning to focus. By the time a baby is 4–6 months old, their eyes…
Read MoreCradle Cap: What It Is & What To Do
Does my baby have cradle cap? If you have seen flaking and crusting with yellow or white scales on your baby’s scalp, you are probably noticing cradle cap. Don’t be concerned. There is no evidence that it causes any discomfort to your baby at all. If you are not certain whether your child has cradle…
Read More5 Postpartum Nutrition Tips from a Certified Nutrition Coach
One of the biggest concerns with many new mums postpartum is to “get their body back.” In this article we will talk about that and nutrition during your postpartum recovery. While “getting your body back” is an understandable goal, too many women lose precious time with their baby by worrying about losing weight. Weight loss goals can…
Read MoreExercise During Pregnancy
One of the most exciting chapters of your life has begun. You’re pregnant! Life is about to change, and so is your body. Exercise can not only help you stay in shape, but also help prepare you for labor and delivery. Did you know that exercising is safe and healthy for most pregnant women, even…
Read MoreFood Allergies and Your Child
Did you know that about 6 million children have food allergies? That is a staggering number in my opinion. I never experienced a food allergy, so I was not very concerned about introducing my son to new foods when he was a baby. I followed our pediatrician’s recommendations until he was a certain age, but…
Read MoreAll About Bathing Your Baby
You and your sweet new bundle are home from the hospital and finally figuring things out together. Each new day brings its own set of firsts for both of you. You may be nervous about some of the tasks you are facing, and that is completely normal. Every mother on the planet has been a…
Read MoreDental Health and Your Pregnancy
Noticing sensitivity with your teeth or a little pink on your toothbrush now that you’re pregnant? In my experience as a certified dental assistant, and a mother, I was often asked, “Why are my gums bleeding now that I am pregnant?” “Why are my teeth more sensitive during my pregnancy?” Or “Is it safe to…
Read MoreConstipation During Pregnancy
Picture this. I was pregnant with my third child and having a hell of a time during the first 15 weeks. I was working full time, exhausted, eating poorly, vomiting often and to top it off I hadn’t pooped for 5 days. Pregnancy constipation is defined as having fewer than three bowel movements a week.…
Read MoreShould I Get an Epidural?
Epidurals. They can be a touchy subject. Let’s discuss what may, or may not, occur if you choose to get one. And, yes, Buddha Belly Doulas support your choice for an epidural. “We were made to give birth”. We have all heard that before, right? It is true, we were made to do this. We…
Read MoreBreastfeeding and Birth Control
We believe it’s just as important to understand your options and feel empowered in your decisions about birth control as it is for giving birth. In this post we share insight into breastfeeding as a form of birth control, called the lactational amenorrhea method (LAM). Is breastfeeding my baby an effective form of birth control?…
Read MoreBreastfeeding Support Options
Just like there is no such thing as “one size fits all” bras, breastfeeding help is no different. The best person that you can reach out to for breastfeeding support is a breastfeeding professional. Makes sense, right? In this article we will discuss the different types of breastfeeding support options that are available. As a…
Read MoreSecond Trimester Checklist: What To Do in the Second Trimester of Pregnancy
Congratulations, you’ve made it to the second trimester! Hopefully you are settling into this new life of being pregnant and the exhaustion and nausea has decreased. Maybe you’re even starting to feel that second trimester boost of energy. We’ve put together a helpful checklist for you to use as you navigate the next several weeks…
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